Mamelodi News | Temba, Hammanskraal
A heated dispute has erupted within the Rural Kasi Rides (RKR) Crew and 4G Racing circles after Tshiamo Ntsai Maputla from Temba, Hammanskraal, accused fellow stance racing personality Amanda Ngoma from Mabopane of allegedly pursuing men who are already in relationships.
Tshiamo claims Amanda has allegedly shown interest in several men connected to the stance racing community, including men who are allegedly partners or friends of other women in the scene.
The dispute reportedly escalated during a sanitary charity drive at Jubilee Mall in Hammanskraal on Sunday, where Tshiamo alleges that Amanda became involved in a physical confrontation with another woman following an alleged relationship dispute.
Tshiamo has further called on RKR Crew, 4G Racing and other stance crews to distance themselves from Amanda over the allegations.
However, Amanda has strongly rejected Tshiamo's accusations and says she refuses to accept responsibility for men who choose to approach her.
Responding to the allegations, Amanda said:
“If men love me, I don’t care. If men come after me, then that’s their problem, not my problem.”
Amanda argued that the responsibility lies with the men involved, particularly if they are already in relationships.
She further claimed that if men approach her willingly, she does not see their relationships as her responsibility.
“The problem is their men, not mine,” Amanda said.
She dismissed Tshiamo's allegations as “nonsense” and maintained that she would not be pressured into changing her position because of criticism from other women.
The dispute has now spilled into the wider stance racing community, with questions being raised about relationships, loyalty and boundaries within social circles where friendships and romantic relationships often overlap.
When someone in a relationship makes a move on another person, who should carry the blame, the person making the move, the person accepting it, or both?
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